If your rendez-vous is curtailed or flat out cancelled in the name of exhaustion, and there is no immediate post-slumber call, text or reschedule, wake up and realize that you are getting a courtesy, white-lie brush off.
Its simplicity makes it ingenious and bewildering – no one wants to believe it’s anything other than the absolute truth. It is an easy and indisputable go-to excuse. We all can commiserate with being exhausted and wanting nothing more than to curl up in bed. And besides, you don’t know the details of their week – maybe they legitimately need to pass out.
Odds are that genuine sleep-deprivation is the exception rather than the rule. The key indicator of the utterly-exhausted-but-sincerely-wants-to-see-you would be rescheduling for the near future when they could be functional and fun again.
Consider your own emotions. The way you automatically smile from simply getting a text from someone you like; the mystery and excitement of what another date will hold; and just that indescribable jolt of positive energy as a result of merely having someone that you are into and that is interested in you too.
Now, if you were tired – would you bail? Or would you suck it up, take a nap, drink coffee, or even just soar on natural, nervous- excited energy? If you are into someone, and especially if it is new, it is inconsequential if you’re sleepy because your desire to see the other person counteracts your drooping eyes.
So, if someone won’t overcome their mild to moderate fatigue to see you – snap out of your delusional coma and realize they aren’t into you.
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